The Power of the First Time
No, not that first time (well, not exclusively). Think about the first time you did something that scared the hell out of you. For me, the best example is the first time I set out to ride a rollercoaster and actually enjoy it. Before, the tiny number of times I'd been on coasters were all profanity-laced panic-attack-like attempts to assert my masculinity. This time, however, I decided to seize my fear and enjoy the ride. It worked- that summer, and the two years thereafter, I bought a season pass to the local theme park and racked up literally hundreds of out-and-back trips, and I made a couple of special trips to other theme parks to hit THEIR coasters, too. Something that had been previously unimaginable became a source of tremendous enjoyment to me. What about the first time you used a tool you'd never used before? I was terrified of the vertical milling machine until the first project I used it for; now I can't imagine NOT having access to it...